Search

How do I search for a specific member?
Enter the persons "screen name" or nickname that is associated with their profile and the search will reveal their profile. Sceen names are case sensative. Members who have requested to be hidden will not show.

How do I perform a search?
Select the criteria under which your search should be performed, for example, Man seeking woman, for 1-on1 sex in Alabama and the search engine will reveal your results. Upgraded members are able to perform a detailed search while free members can perform a basic search. Members can be removed from 'search' by request.

How can I browse members?
You need to specify a search criteria first and then you can browse through the many profiles the search displays.

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Mailbox
How do I send email to members?
Providing you have an upgraded membership, its simply either a case of clicking on "reply" to an incoming email in your inbox or if you know the profile screen name, then click New Mail and compose a new message.

How do I get/receive email from other members?
Check your MailBox regularly and any new messages from other members will be displayed in there.

How Long does the MailBox keep my Mail?
28 Days for Free memberships and 6 months for upgraded memberships.

Can I block a member from sending me emails or whispers?
Yes, select the email from the screen name you want to block further emails from within My Mailbox and select "Block Sender" and the screen name will be placed in your block list which is visible only by you within the "My Profile Section"

What is the difference between emails and Flirts?
Flirts are free short one line preselected emails designed to" test the water" between prospective matches and are available to all users either free or upgraded. Emails however are adjustable messages similar to conventional web based emails you would expect to receive or send from a web based service.

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Who's Online
Are all these people online right now?
Yes! There are often many people on line day and night. They are all available for contact now!

Is there a way to narrow the who's online to just females/males/couples?
Yes. Narrow your search for who's online using the options at the top of the page.

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My Hot List
How do I delete or clear my hot list?
Simply select the profiles you wish to delete from your hot list and select delete.

Can other users see I have "Hot-listed" them?
Yes. Other users will be able to see you have added them to your hot list. This is a great way of breaking the ice in silence!

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My Profile
How long does it take to have my profile posted?
Once you've signed up, you'll be sent a confirmation email. Once you've replied to that confirmation email, your profile will be posted instantly. Its important that you log back into the site and complete any areas of the profile that you did not complete when you signed up such as adding pictures or extended profile details.

Are profiles censored? Is there any limit to what I can put in my profile?
Profiles aren't censored, but if a profile has any hotlinks to another site, whether personal or commercial, it could be subject to termination. Also, we don't allow racist or graphic content, child pornography, bestiality or other illegal content. Profiles should be about you, any contact details, messages or instructions will be removed

What are some tips to remember when creating my profile?
Be sure to say something about yourself that will make you stand out from all of the rest. There are already hundreds of pictures of dicks on the site, so keep in mind that women want to see YOU too, so make sure to upload a good picture of yourself.

How do I update my profile?
Once you've logged onto the site, click the "My Profile" button on the top navigation menu, then click the "View my Profile" button. This will open your profile page, where you can change, add, or delete your profile info. Make sure to click the SAVE CHANGES button at the bottom of the page to save your changes!

How do I upload pictures/video to my profile and how long does it take to get approved?
Once you've logged onto the site, click the "My Profile" button on the top navigation menu, then click the "Upload my Photos" button. This will open your pictures page. You can add or delete UPLOAD after you have browsed and located the image. If your pictures are approved they will be online within 24-48 hours. Instructions of how to upload from your Camera Phone are also located on this page.

How do I set up private pictures/video?
You need to select 'private' when you upload a photo/video and then set a password.

What kind of pictures can I upload to my profile or galleries? What is considered inappropriate?
Your profile pictures can only be pictures of you or parts of your body. If you are a couple you both can be in them, but if you are single we ask that just you be in the picture. Please don't upload any animated gifs, pictures of your house, cars, or any inanimate objects. If you are taking pictures for your galleries, then you can have pictures of your house, cars, boats etc. We want other members to see YOU in your profile pictures so we allow you to upload pictures of other things in your galleries. WE WILL NOT ALLOW ANY pictures with minors in them!! We understand you might have children and want to share your pictures of them with other users but this is an adult site and we will delete any pictures with children. What we consider inappropriate are ANY pictures with minors, gore, bestiality, and similar. We will report any people uploading any pictures of nude or inappropriate minors to the appropriate authorities.